The importance of sex in marriage cannot be over emphasised. Adequate and exciting sex life in a marriage will serve as tonic that can only lead to a happy, marital bliss in your marriage.
To know more about the place and role of sex in marriage, I advised that you read my article about the topic.
If you are having a difficult sexual married life, or, your sex life have gone stale. To read my piece on that topic. There are ways by which you can change this and bring back life into your marriage.
Here are sure-fire ways by which you can turn the direction of your sex life around. These exciting ways if followed, will change your bored sex life, to one that is full of excitements, anticipated, spontaneous, interesting and fulfilling.
1. Know the sexual behaviour of your partner. This is important because, if you are able to know the sexual habit of your partner, you will be able to cure the ignorance of attitude your have towards sex. If you are prone to having sex while the other is busy with something else, you are likely to be impatient, seeking for some kind of restart. If you lack the knowledge about the sexual habit of your partner, you may end up rejected, specially by your partner.
2. If you lack the confidence to ask your partner what is his or her likes and dislikes while having sex, then you are going to lose your confidence in the relationship. Great sex is supposed to be achieved with communication. If you lack the confidence to ask your partner what he or she likes, then you are going to loose interest in sex, and there will be no pleasure left in the relationship. Sexual relationship should be like the relationship that you used to have, where each partner should know what the other one likes. If you keep asking your partner about what he or she likes, the days of intimacy will be lost.
3. The next exciting thing is to try out something new. Make an effort to do something new. All the things that you know that you like, can be wrong. You should not put down your partner for trying something new. New things should come from the heart. So if you are contrary to what your partner wants, vow to try it something new.
4. The next step to having a passionate marriage is to let your partner know that you love and care for him or her. A side effect of an intimate relationship is that your partner will grow closer to you. If your partner feels loved, he or she will be more attentive to your needs. Learn how to say I love you with sincerity.
5. Another defect of our marriage is the failure of men in giving their wife orgasms. It is a common complaint of women that men are not doing the right thing when it comes to sexually satisfying their wife. Men should stop thinking about their own feelings when they make love with their wife. Instead, they should try to do what helps their partner to reach climax.
6. Spend quality time with your partner. You should always enjoy your time with your partner. Try having quality foreplay. You will be amazed to see how relaxed and happy your wife will be. Quality time does not only limit to foreplay. It can also spice up a normal sex routine. Try out new sex positions, if you are comfortable in doing so.
7. Finally, spice up your marriage. Try out new things, if you are comfortable in doing so. Do not be afraid to try out new things with your spouse. Doing so will bring back the fire in your marriage.