You can learn how to please a woman with oral sex through your studies. Some studies will teach you tricks and techniques to use during oral sex. All you need to know is what feels good to a woman and how to do it properly. Some studies will also teach you the anatomy of the female body and what works well for her. You will need to know about the variety of foreplay techniques including mental and physical stimulation.
Through your studies, you should learn the location of the G spot, the nipple and clitoris, the flow of blood through the body, and how to connect the back of the uterus. You should also learn how to associate different scents and flavors with the genitalia.
There are some things you should also know about performing oral sex on a female. You should not do it passionately or for selfish reasons. Always use your penis to stimulate the vaginal entrance or the clitoris. Use your finger or tongue gently unless your girl wishes otherwise. For women, it is important to delay your orgasm until you send her to the edge.
You should also learn about the psychological and neuro-physical aspects of the act. Different positions during oral sex can enhance the experience. Some books and sites can give you significant advice on the matter. Do your research and learn the tricks of the trade.
When it comes to cunnilingus certain rules apply.
1. Talk to your girl. If your girl does not want to do it, do not force her. It is not a sign of something being too dirty. Could you not treat it as a favor to her?
2. Make sure she is in the right mood. Before she is aroused, do not attempt to perform oral sex on her.
3. Wear a condom-insufficiently lubricated can cut the penis in half.
4. Only apply a small amount of pressure to the head. Directly licking the clitoris can be highly painful.
5. Once the girl is aroused, work your way down to the vagina with gentle and firm attention.
It is important to note that some women do not like the same style of oral sex. It is up to the male to choose the type that works for his woman. If the style is too aggressive, the woman may push his head away. If she can’t reach orgasm by this method, she may fake it.
Women can have tremendous orgasms through oral sex. Make sure every stroke is gentle and the attention to the clitoris is lovely. The male should also refrain from any vigorous or rough thrusting during oral sex.
The book, Lick Lick by Michael Webb should be consulted for all its content. This book delves into the world of oral sex in detail and has much to offer. It will provide a step-by-step guide and examples of different oral sex techniques. It will also instruct you on the use of your fingers and hands in creating a sensual and arousing atmosphere. Oral sex is as much a spiritual experience as it is a physical one. Through the act of pleasing your woman through oral sex, you can reach a higher level of personal intimacy and achieve spiritual bliss.
It is usually a mistake to attempt anal sex before the woman is fully aroused. The book, The Big Bang gives insights into the wrong and correct ways to learn to please your woman.